Lessons Learned

I was asked recently to speak to a group of young adults about the experiences and lessons that have made a difference in my career and my life.  These are some of the most impactful lessons that I have learned throughout my career journey.... 

ü  Always maintain a Circle of Advisors

o   Mentors, coaches, trusted advisors that you can reach out to for advice and guidance

ü  Do not allow feedback or setbacks to define your destiny.   Adopt a “no excuses” attitude.

ü  Do not allow negative situations or circumstances to define your destiny.  “Take the high road” and do not allow negative circumstances (bad news, getting overlooked, negative feedback) to weigh you down.  Learn to “Keep it moving”!

ü  Relationships are important.  They last well beyond jobs. Relationships transcend cultures, socioeconomic backgrounds, international boundaries and languages.  Never burn bridges!

ü  Always give back!  Adopt a servant attitude.  Reach back and help someone else who may be struggling.  Find opportunities to serve your community.

ü  Do not just Talk-the-Talk, Always Walk-the-Walk.  Keep your word and do what you say you will do.

ü  Work to live, do not live to work.  Understand that your JOB is not why you live, it only supports your lifestyle. 

ü  “Suit up”.  Recognize that your demeanor and appearance DOES matter.  Not just your clothes, but also your posture and your attitude.

ü  Set clear goals that are well beyond where you are today.  Believe that you can achieve them.

ü  Stay focused!  You will encounter many distractions in life.  Life will always “show up”.  Stay focused on your goals and make adjustments when necessary.

ü  Invest in yourself.  Look for opportunities to grow and develop (read, take classes, seek knowledge through the internet, find a mentor).  No money is no excuse!

ü  Networking is important.  Build and maintain a network of people that are outside of your immediate personal and professional circle.